MOTIVATING AN UNMOTIVATED BOY [#16574]

November 7, 2021

QUESTION:

What can we do for a bochur who doesn’t find satisfaction in avodas Hashem and has no interest in hisbodedus or anything like that, and he feels a strong pull towards the outside world where he thinks he will have it better and more enjoyable there?

ANSWER:

Find an area of ruchniyus which is close to his heart, and through working on it with him, you can get through to him.