FRUSTRATION IN FINDING A SHIDDUCH [#16292]

October 27, 2021

QUESTION:

Why did Hashem give me such a deep desire to get married so I can build a home of Torah and kedushah, and I am still not married? What was the reason of giving me this desire when it hasn’t yet been fulfilled?

ANSWER:

All suffering cleanses our soul. The frustration is also so that you can gain the maturity to be able to make a compromise and give in to a shidduch that isn’t exactly what you had in mind, so that you can work on your middos and on your emunah.