MULTIPLE MISCARRIAGES [#17227]

December 9, 2021

QUESTION:

I have unfortunately have had multiple miscarriages. I also had much suffering in my life besides for this…. I know that we are not supposed to ask “Why”, but I am trying so hard to strengthen my emunah and I am saying that it’s all from Hashem and that only He will give me children. Am I able to know why this has happened to me? What is the attitude I need to have towards all of this?

ANSWER:

You need to have pure faith that everything is from Hashem and that there is nothing else besides Him.
On one hand, you should view you womb as a place which Hashem had made into a guest house for all neshamos who need a tikkun, a soul-repair, by spending a short amount of time on this world. In this generation, there are actually many neshamos who need this tikkun. On the other hand, try also to improve on doing one thing perfectly, without interrupting in the middle , even if it requires a lot of effort. Also, be careful to cut or burn fingernails and toenails.